Choosing God











{May 11, 2009}   Pink ribbons

University is absolutely crazy!!  But I’m loving every moment of it.

All my semester tests are done for now, so it’s normal class until the 20 May.  Then it’s study study study.  Hard work but somebodies got to do it…right?? ;)

Quick updated on the Hein factor…if he really cared for me, he would have called me.  End of story, done with him (for now anyway).  Why do I need him when I have wonderful new friends (and old) in my life??  I love you guys to death and will do anything for you, as I know you will for me.

One of my new friends, Johann, has asked me to sing with him.  He has a band yes, but I will not be singing with them (metal is not for me, hehe).  We will be singing duets together at his singing lessons.  We start this Saturday.  Personally I can’t wait!!  This is like a dream come true.  Singing!! It is like my hidden passion.  I sing everywhere, thus I was completely ecstatic when he asked me to join in.  Again I realise that for a dream to become reality, it must start small.  This may be the beginnings of something exciting!!

Unfortunately life has not gone that smoothly (but when does it).  Last Thursday (May 7th 2009) my mother was again diagnosed with cancer in her left breast.  When my father gave me the news, I wasn’t at all as shocked as I thought I would be.  It is like I always considered the option, that the cancer will return, in the back of my head.

Luckily my parents were in Pretoria this weekend.  So I can say with upmost certainty that she is totally calm about this whole situation.  Yes, it is tough.  But then again, she went through cancer once and survived.  She is one tough lady :) .  At this stage, I feel it more important to give most of my support to my dad, who has to carry and support my mom during this time.  I love both my parents very much.  And even though my brother and I are far from home, we support them in our hearts.  We will support both them and each other.

I want to ask a favour for all who reads this:  I want you all to wear a pink ribbon this day/week/month or for however long you like.  Even if you don’t wear it on your clothes, wear it on your heart.  Support those with cancer.  Pray for them.  Believe that God knows best in their lives.  Smile at them.  Talk to them.

Cancer may be an illness, but those ill are still normal people.



Adrie says:

Aventer

Wise choice regarding Hein. I smell a rat.

I am really sorry to hear about your mother. I pray that she will win the battle again.

Good luck to your family.



Wipneus! says:

Hello Avie

So sorry to hear about your Mom.
I will definitely be wearing a pink ribbon in my heart this month!

Hein? Sometimes God take something away from us, to give us something better.

Take care
*hugs*



Stallian van Schalkwyk says:

Ek weet julle 4 en die res sal jul familie sal hul krag van Bo kry.. julle is in my stil gebed.



aventer says:

Thanks you guys

Adrie…dink die rot het bietjie gif geeet…hy bestaan nie rerig meer nie…hoe meer ek uitvind van hom, hoe blyer word ek dat ek geen kontak met hom het nie.

Dankie tog ek het awesome pelle…oues en nuwes :)



Al klaar met xams? :)



aventer says:

hey daar, jammer vir die lang wag, maar stil soos ‘n muis deesdae, het nie veel om te se…

klaar met exams jap jap en is als deur!! whoop whoop ^_^



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